People often hire a Thailand Private Investigator to conduct a Thai Girlfriend Investigation. The majority of clients asking for a Thai Girlfriend Investigation are involved with a Thai Bar Girl. Pattaya Private Investigator receives hundreds of requests for a Thai Girlfriend Investigation every year. Most people who ask us to conduct a Thai Girlfriend Investigation have met a girl in a bar or disco. Our first piece of advice is to be very careful with who you meet. Many Thailand Freelance Prostitutes work in these venues. Never get involved in a serious relationship with a Thai prostitute. That’s what those beautiful young girls you see in the bars are. Prostitutes. However, some men have trouble seeing this truth. You wouldn’t go to the local red light district in your home town and find a prostitute to be your girlfriend. But, that is exactly what foreign men do when they come to Thailand.
Some men go straight to a go-go bar or beer bar and meet girls there. It is clear that these girls work as prostitutes. It is no secret in Thailand. However, many men ignore this fact. The story usually starts out the same. You’ve just landed on your first trip to Bangkok. It’s hot as hell and you need something cold to drink. The first thing you notice when you are walking along the streets of Thailand is all the bars full of hot young Thai girls. You pull up a chair at one of the bars and instantly become a celebrity. Soft skin, dark eyes, long jet black hair, hot little body. Your sucked in and now the ride really starts. You’ve fallen instantly in love.
She’s young, fun, and a beautiful girl, who reluctantly came to town from a farming village in Thailand’s rural northeastern region. She doesn’t really want to be there but has no choice. You see, Papa needs an operation. The family buffalo broke a leg and can’t plow the fields. Plus she is just dying to advance her life but needs money for school. And of course, she is poor. Boo hoo hoo. Life is so incredibly hard here in Thailand as she sucks down another lady drink. That you just paid for.
Now of course, she’s just the cashier and doesn’t go with customers for sex at all. Not unless she meets a “really special” man. A special man just like you. And then the arrow strikes. You’ve fallen for one of those Thai Bar Girls. The nest 10 days are heaven on earth. You pay her bar fine to keep her off work for the next ten days. Together you travel to the beach and spend your holiday in bliss. Only for it to end far too soon. The tearful goodbye at Suvanabhumi airport is almost too much to handle. But fear not! You’ll be back in 6 months.
You message and call her as often as you can. You stare at her text messages… I love you too much! I miss you too much! However, you can’t wait for your next trip to Thailand to see her again. Every day is a lonely one, a long one. But you get through knowing every day that passes means you’ll soon be with her.
Then out of nowhere, disaster strikes! The family’s buffalo’s leg has healed. But now it is sick. So sick the vet says it might die and the treatment will cost a small fortune. Way more than they can afford! And if that wasn’t enough, Papa had a heart attack! Now he is in the hospital and no money to pay the bills. The family farm is in grave danger! She’s tried to ask other family members for money. But they are dirt poor too. What will she do?
You are her last hope! Without your help, her family will be in a terrible situation! Destitute and no way to turn, she pleads for your help. Like a comic book hero you spring to the rescue. Farang Bah (stupid foreigner) to the rescue! You copy down her info and head straight to the nearest Western Union office to save the day. Don’t forget that MTCN number!
Except, of course, that the buffalo isn’t sick. They don’t even own a buffalo. She’s not really a cashier either and she’s probably asking her two or three other foreign “boyfriends” for the same amount of money. She’s probably even sitting at the bar right now joking about it with her Thai boyfriend. You remember. Tik, that guy you met with her once or twice and she said was her cousin? Congratulations! You’ve just joined the club. Does any of this sound familiar to you? This is the trap many foreign men fall into when they come to Thailand. They don’t understand the game, nor do they know what the game is. There is a huge difference between a Thai Bar Girl Prostitute and a Mainstream, proper Thai lady. One makes a great girlfriend. The other does not.
This is the trap foreign men fall into when they come to Thailand. It is very easy to find a young pretty girl here. The bars are full of them. Most men are aware that paying money for sex is prostitution. This is forgotten when they arrive in Thailand. They somehow overlook the fact they are considering falling in love with a prostitute. The idea is she will quit if he starts taking care of her by sending money to her from abroad. The idea is she stops working in the bar and stops having sex for money. The naive foreign man will believe this. While it is true some girls will stop, the majority don’t. This is where the problems start. The foreign man believes he has helped the girl, and he has. But the unknown fact is she probably still works at the bar.
Because she can bring in more money for the family that way, this is what most girls do. The foreign man is often unaware of this until suspicious behavior intervenes. That is when they decide to contact a Thailand Private Detective to request a Thai Girlfriend Investigation. Most men who contact Pattaya Private Investigator are looking for a Thai Girlfriend Investigation because they are worried about strange happenings with their Thai Girlfriend. For example, phone turned off, loud music in the background, other men’s voices heard on the phone. These are the general concerns when a Thai Girlfriend Investigation is requested.
Proper Thai ladies (those who aren’t prostitutes or scammers) are much less to worry about. Most who have a relationship with a foreigner are fairly open and honest, and have good intentions. When I say proper Thai ladies, I mean those who have reputable jobs and a college education. Proper Thai ladies in Thailand are more conservative than western women. Most are good people and innocent and would never think of scamming you or ripping you off. These are the Thai women you want to meet if you are looking for a relationship with a Thai woman. On the other hand, relationships with Thai Bar Girls is a different story. A story with a sand ending most of the time. Avoid at all costs.
You’ve probably read stories of foreign men being ripped off by Thai ladies. In 99% of those cases the relationship involved a foreign man and a Thai Bar Girl Prostitute. Proper Thai ladies usually have a good job and their own money. They come from good families and aren’t on The Game like Thai Bar Girls. Proper Thai ladies are a much better choice for a relationship. They bring something to the table and have manners and intelligence. A proper Thai lady isn’t going to tell you stories like Buffalo broke leg, Papa sick in hospital. In my experience, Thai women are wonderful people, kind, gentle, and loyal.
Another popular tool for Thai Bar Girl Scams is using Thai dating sites. They are full of scammers but also proper Thai ladies. A lot of foreign men are scammed by women using these dating sites. I’ve had cases where a foreign man met a girl on a Thai Dating Site and sent her thousands of dollars without ever meeting her. They fell in love over the Internet and also fell for the Thai Bar Girl Scam. It happens a lot and the frequency is on the rise. Most of the men are over 50, out of shape, and have no game when it comes to meeting women. They are easy marks for a Thai Bar Girl Scam. A lot of foreign men fall for these scams and then contact us a for a Thai Girlfriend Investigation.
Another scam frequently used on unsuspecting foreign men is the phony college girl routine. Thailand Freelance Prostitutes will dress in the Thai college student standard attire. A black skirt and a white buttoned shirt. Most of the time the skirt is short and the shirt fits tightly. This is a common ploy that works well on unsuspecting targets. The girl will say she is going to college to study to improve her life. The high cost of college education then comes into play. A lot of these girls are in truth Thailand Freelance Prostitutes.
Other Thai Freelance Prostitutes can be found in 5 Star hotel bars and lounges. There isn’t much the 5 Star hotel can do about it. You can’t outright accuse a patron of being a prostitute though nearly every girl in the bar is one. Everyone else knows the real story anyway, but not the guest of the hotel on his first trip to Bangkok. They are easy targets for Thailand Freelance Prostitutes. I won’t mention the names of these establishment but a quick Internet search will return the correct results.
This is a common outcome of a Thai Girlfriend Investigation. Clients contact us after hearing other voices in the background when they call their Thai girlfriend on the phone. It is usually the voice of another foreign man they hear. It is not uncommon for a Thai Bar Girl or prostitute to have 3, 4, 5, or more men going at the same time. I’ve done many cases where this is the outcome, the discovery of other men in her life. The idea is to get as much money coming in from as many men as possible. A Thai Bar Girl can easily replace you in a heartbeat. Thousands of foreigners arrive on a daily basis to restock the fishing pond.
So, our number one piece of advice to you is don’t get involved too deeply with a Thai Bar Girl prostitute. If you already have, then you might want to hire a Thailand Private Detective and request a Thai Girlfriend Investigation. You will always benefit from having the girl checked out first. It’s just common sense. Your best bet is to hire a Thailand Private Detective to check out her story first, before you start throwing cash around. Far too often we receive a Thai Girlfriend Investigation request from men who have already invested thousands, if not hundreds of thousands of dollars in their Thai princess. Only to find out too late that they were being scammed all along. Check her out first.
Be smart. Hire a Thailand Private Detective to conduct a Thai Girlfriend Investigation first. You’ll be making a much better investment if you let us check her out first. The Thai Bar Girl Scam can be costly. A comprehensive Thai Girlfriend Investigation will reveal the facts. If there is anything out of order we will find it. When we find something in our Thai Girlfriend Investigation we will provide photo/video evidence of it. Contact Us right now for a free no obligation consultation. We are here to help.